Pakistani Woman Celebrates Divorce After 30 Years: Internet Reacts

Divorce is never easy. Only those who go through it know the pain, struggle, and emotional toll it takes.

In Pakistan, divorce is often seen as a taboo topic—even though it is permitted in Islam. Couples are often pressured to stay together, even in toxic or abusive situations. However, with more women finding the courage to speak up, the divorce rate is slowly rising.

A Daughter’s Viral Post on Her Mother’s Freedom

Recently, a young woman named Feeya shared a heartwarming and bold post about her mother’s divorce. After being married for 30 years, her mother finally separated from what was described as a toxic and abusive relationship. Instead of sadness, the family chose to celebrate her freedom. They had cake and dinner to mark the beginning of a new chapter.

Feeya shared pictures and thoughts about the event online, calling it a celebration of strength and survival. She said her mother is now truly happy and at peace for the first time in many years.

Internet Reactions: Mixed Views from the Public

The post quickly went viral, and social media users had mixed reactions. Many people praised the family for supporting a woman’s right to leave an abusive marriage and for breaking cultural taboos. One user commented, “It is good to celebrate when you come out of a painful situation.”

Others were more critical. Some believed that divorce—while Halal—is still something that should not be celebrated publicly. One user wrote, “I do not agree with celebrating divorce, but I also cannot judge someone else’s pain.”

Another said, “It’s wrong to put something so personal on social media, regardless of the reason.”

The Full Story Behind the Divorce

After receiving criticism, Feeya came forward with more details. She revealed that her father had left her mother over 10 years ago after years of abuse, including threats with a gun. Her mother had already lived through years of abandonment and trauma. So when the official divorce finally came, it felt like a victory, not a loss.

This also explained why her mother was not observing Iddat—a waiting period after divorce—as she had already been living separately for a decade.

A Bigger Conversation

This story has sparked a larger conversation about women’s rights, mental health, and social stigma in Pakistan. While not everyone agrees on celebrating divorce, many agree that no one should be forced to stay in an abusive or toxic marriage.

As society slowly evolves, stories like Feeya’s remind us of the strength it takes to walk away—and the power of family support during difficult times.