Who is Laura Clery Ex Husband? All about Stephen Hilton

Laura Clery, the popular YouTuber known for her “Pamela Pupkin” videos, has shared troubling updates about alleged post-separation abuse by her ex, Stephen Hilton. Earlier this week, she claimed someone hacked her social media accounts, removed her Facebook page, and deleted much of her YouTube work—a major blow to her income and a decade of creative work.

Who is Stephen Hilton?

Clery alleges that Hilton, a composer who has faced addiction struggles, was behind the hacking. She shared screenshots that appear to show Facebook posts from her account on the night of the alleged hack. Hilton, however, denies involvement.

On TikTok, Clery opened up about “post separation abuse.” She said that even after Hilton was arrested for domestic assault and spent a night in jail in December 2022—a charge listed as “Battery On Spouse / Cohabitant / Former Spouse” with $20,000 bail—he continued to harass her and delete her work online. She described efforts to co-parent peacefully and forgive him after he promised to change, only for the alleged abuse to continue.

Clery emphasized the importance of speaking out: “Staying silent protects the abuser … Bearers count on our silence to continue their control.” She added that despite having a restraining order, the harassment reportedly persisted, describing the deletions as a violation of that order. She reported the hack to police, but hasn’t shared updates on the investigation.

Hilton responded on Instagram Stories, dismissing the situation: “Super Karen Professional waster of police time!” He also accused her of posting false claims and said he’s “happier than he’s EVER been.”

The complex and painful situation continues to unfold. Clery says speaking out is part of her survival, and activists praise her bravery in breaking the cycle of abuse. Fans are hoping this ordeal ends soon—and that Laura can regain control of her platforms and her life.