Who Is Tess Crosley? Lachie Neale’s Marriage Ends Amid Affair Scandal

Thursday, 15 January 2026 – Brisbane, Australia – Australian rules football star Lachie Neale, captain of the Brisbane Lions, is at the center of a personal scandal that has shocked fans and the AFL community. Neale, 32, was reportedly caught in a compromising situation with Tess Crosley, a former close friend of his wife, Jules Neale.

Affair That Ended a Marriage

The secret relationship allegedly began more than three months ago. Reports say a teammate’s partner discovered the affair, leading to the breakup of Neale’s seven-year marriage to Jules, 35.

Jules returned to her hometown of Perth with their two children over Christmas 2025. She later confirmed on social media that she would not reconcile and is focusing on her own healing and family.

Public Statement by Lachie Neale

On 2 January 2026, Neale publicly acknowledged his actions and stepped down as Brisbane Lions captain.

He said: “I have let my family down, and I apologise for my actions, which have hurt those closest to me. I accept this as a consequence and need to focus on rebuilding trust with Jules as the future well-being of our children remains our number one priority.”

Neale requested privacy while navigating this personal crisis.

Tess Crosley: The Woman Involved

Tess Crosley, 30, is reportedly separated from her husband, Ben Crosley, after the affair came to light. She spent Christmas 2025 with her young son on the Gold Coast and later stayed at a private property near Byron Bay. Her husband traveled to Bali over the New Year.

Past Highlights of Lachie and Jules Neale

• Lachie and Jules met as teenagers in Perth and reconnected six years later.

• They married in 2018 after getting engaged in 2017.

• Jules paused her career to support Neale’s AFL career.

• The couple moved to Brisbane in 2019, helping the Lions win back-to-back premierships in 2024 and 2025.

Personal Impact and Fallout

Jules has unfollowed Neale on Instagram and removed images of the couple. Reports suggest the pair is preparing to sell their $2.43 million home in Seven Hills, Brisbane.

Neale previously described Jules as: “My rock and biggest support… She put me ahead of herself when she shouldn’t have to, and I love her for that.”

The scandal has left the AFL community and fans watching closely as all parties try to move forward.